So one of my closest friends, fellow writer Casey Clark, has been open about her asexuality in the past. And this time was no different.
“One of the most challenging parts of being an asexual person is having a conversation about sex. For those who don’t know, asexuality describes people on a spectrum who have little to no interest in sex. This varies individually, but for me, I don’t want sex at all.
I’ve only been in one serious relationship, and I expressed up front how I was asexual and had no desire for sex. Personally, I think it would be wrong for me to lead on my partner because odds are they probably aren’t thinking I will not want sex. It’s an uncomfortable conversation to have because many people think they can ‘change you,’ and that’s not the case. I’ve learned that if they don’t want to be with you because you don’t want sex, then they really don’t want to be with you at all. It’s the harsh reality of navigating the dating world as an asexual person, as much as I hate to admit it.”
She ended it on a beautiful note, saying, “You’ll discover people really only want sex, but don’t let that make you feel unlovable.”